Comments for rave on and tell me that you love me http://reeven.wordpress.com looking for love, finding.... Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:08:27 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on I am going to tell my wife I’m leaving by SuitedCC http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-238 SuitedCC Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:08:27 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-238 Very touching... Very touching…

]]> Comment on I am going to tell my wife I’m leaving by reeven http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-237 reeven Mon, 21 Sep 2009 03:20:40 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-237 It seems to me you should discuss it with your wife and decide your future together. Perhaps there is a basis for you staying together. Perhaps not. You might try a marriage counselor if you cannot do it together without help. Good luck with whatever life brings. It seems to me you should discuss it with your wife and decide your future together. Perhaps there is a basis for you staying together. Perhaps not. You might try a marriage counselor if you cannot do it together without help. Good luck with whatever life brings.

]]> Comment on I am going to tell my wife I’m leaving by jerry http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-236 jerry Tue, 15 Sep 2009 16:07:54 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-236 what if your wife loves you, you have no children, but you don't feel the same love, and just want out? Do you go, destroy her feelings, her confidence, and self-respect, or do you stay and keep the feeling of unfulfillment and unpleasant compromise? what if your wife loves you, you have no children, but you don’t feel the same love, and just want out? Do you go, destroy her feelings, her confidence, and self-respect, or do you stay and keep the feeling of unfulfillment and unpleasant compromise?

]]> Comment on I am going to tell my wife I’m leaving by Mel http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-226 Mel Tue, 03 Mar 2009 20:45:59 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-226 Got the same situation. A feeling of being trapped in a marriage, but with children whom you love unconditionally, but not your wife. Another woman who you love unlike anyone in a relationship before and now the crossroads, leave or not leave. Ask yourself this question if you leave will your children feel your leaving them too? I've already left the home said it was only temporary but now have to decide if I tell them I'm not coming back. I can't do it. They seem ok, but underneath it all their confused and probably feeling I've deserted them. I can't say I'm not coming back not because I'm a coward either, but its the thought of causing further pain to my children. I've hurt them too much already. When it comes down to it is it a simple case of the childrens happyness over your own? If I don't do something I risk losing them all. Given what I've said to my wife already on how I feel I can't see how she could ever forgive me. I know I don't love her but I still care for her, she's been the victim in this, and although I was the victim in the marriage for all those years, can't help feeling that my leaving was wrong. Think carefully before you leave, but in the end in my experience for you it's a no win situation. The best you could do is come to the same conclusion I have, stay and tough it out, your kids need you, as do mine. Got the same situation. A feeling of being trapped in a
marriage, but with children whom you love unconditionally, but not your wife. Another woman who you love unlike anyone in a relationship before and now the crossroads, leave or not leave. Ask yourself this question if you leave will your children feel your leaving them too? I’ve already left the home said it was only temporary but now have to decide if I tell them I’m not coming back. I can’t do it. They seem ok, but underneath it all their confused and probably feeling I’ve deserted them. I can’t say I’m not coming back not because I’m a coward either, but its the thought of causing further pain to my children. I’ve hurt them too much already. When it comes down to it is it a simple case of the childrens happyness over your own? If I don’t do something I risk losing them all. Given what I’ve said to my wife already on how I feel I can’t see how she could ever forgive me. I know I don’t love her but I still care for her, she’s been the victim in this, and although I was the victim in the marriage for all those years, can’t help feeling that my leaving was wrong. Think carefully before you leave, but in the end in my experience for you it’s a no win situation. The best you could do is come to the same conclusion I have, stay and tough it out, your kids need you, as do mine.

]]> Comment on Sex with others. Wife pregnant by reeven http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/07/08/sex-with-others-wife-pregnant/#comment-225 reeven Wed, 10 Dec 2008 13:02:55 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/07/08/sex-with-others-wife-pregnant/#comment-225 Walking away...for a while it was my specialty. Walking away…for a while it was my specialty.

]]> Comment on Sex with others. Wife pregnant by Wes http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/07/08/sex-with-others-wife-pregnant/#comment-224 Wes Tue, 09 Dec 2008 01:14:46 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/07/08/sex-with-others-wife-pregnant/#comment-224 WOW....this is a HELL of a story and i am jealous. And kudos to you for having the will power to walk away from such a temptress. Dont know if i could do the same though. WOW….this is a HELL of a story and i am jealous. And kudos to you for having the will power to walk away from such a temptress. Dont know if i could do the same though.

]]> Comment on I am going to tell my wife I’m leaving by daj http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-213 daj Wed, 25 Jun 2008 12:52:48 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-213 A lovely piece... the way you left it, I couldn't tell if you were happy or sad with the way things had worked out, in love or not in love with your wife. Which is probably a reflection of how many of us feel - we can't quite tell ourselves if we are happy or sad about our past. Thanks. A lovely piece… the way you left it, I couldn’t tell if you were happy or sad with the way things had worked out, in love or not in love with your wife. Which is probably a reflection of how many of us feel – we can’t quite tell ourselves if we are happy or sad about our past.

Thanks.

]]> Comment on About by ravelyn http://reeven.wordpress.com/about/#comment-206 ravelyn Mon, 19 May 2008 21:38:27 +0000 #comment-206 I was visited MRU in PL :) News in my site :) best wishes! I was visited MRU in PL :)
News in my site :) best wishes!

]]> Comment on How Billy became a man by StandUp4MoralEthics http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/07/07/how-billy-became-a-man/#comment-205 StandUp4MoralEthics Tue, 13 May 2008 18:45:03 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/07/07/how-billy-became-a-man/#comment-205 You're Sick. May God Forgive You. You’re Sick. May God Forgive You.

]]> Comment on I am going to tell my wife I’m leaving by reeven http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-195 reeven Wed, 19 Mar 2008 04:37:24 +0000 http://reeven.wordpress.com/2007/06/26/i-am-going-to-tell-my-wife-im-leaving/#comment-195 It seems to me Tom, that you don't want to hurt them for a reason. Because on some level, you care for them. Just because a female is "bubbly" is no reason to abandon what you've got. We all know that "bubbly" doesn't last forever. Who do you want to be with for the long haul? My guess is it ain't "bubbly". Love, relationships require care and attention. Talk to your wife in person and you'll start to see what you really feel. Then decide what to do. It seems to me Tom, that you don’t want to hurt them for a reason. Because on some level, you care for them. Just because a female is “bubbly” is no reason to abandon what you’ve got. We all know that “bubbly” doesn’t last forever. Who do you want to be with for the long haul? My guess is it ain’t “bubbly”. Love, relationships require care and attention. Talk to your wife in person and you’ll start to see what you really feel. Then decide what to do.

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